Stop Playing Victim and Thrive After Divorce
The Victim Mode During and after a divorce many women fall prey into the victim mode. While in victim mode a woman will not be able to thrive after divorce. Many women do not even realize that they are...
View Article10 Ways to Celebrate Your Divorce
At first, you might think, “I do not want to celebrate my divorce!” Your divorce is the end of an era. It may well be an ending that you did not ask for and that you did not want. You may have fought...
View ArticleTen Tips to Build Empowering Structures in Your Life
After your separation and divorce, it is vitally important for you to build empowering structures in your life. This enables you to create a new life that you love and enjoy, free of fear, regrets and...
View ArticleTen Dating Red Flags
You are ready to get out there and start dating again. You are both excited about the possibilities and terrified that you will find a loser. Chances are you will meet some wonderful – and not so...
View ArticleWhat Price Are You Paying For Holding Onto The Past?
Letting go after a divorce is hard. You feel as if you are on an emotional rollercoaster and do not know how to get off. You feel confused and are constantly thinking of “If only,” “What if,” “I...
View ArticleHow to Overcome Fear After Divorce
Most divorced women are overwhelmed with fear after a divorce. Fear keeps you frozen in the past. It prevents you from seeing the endless possibilities that the future has to offer you. It prevents you...
View Article7 Ways for the Divorced Women to Celebrate Valentine’s Day
To many the thought of Valentine’s Day brings images, hearts, candy, flowers, cupid and happy couples. However many divorced women are in the process of mending their broken heart and report that the...
View Article5 Strategies to Learn to Love Yourself and Gain Confidence
After her divorce, Paula felt very alone and did not have much confidence in herself. She had devoted her entire life to taking care of her husband, children and anyone else who happened along the way....
View ArticleThe Hardest Words to Hear: “I’m Leaving You.”
“I’m leaving you,” are the hardest words for a woman to hear, when she is under the illusion that she is in a stable marriage. There are two common responses to this scenario. Linda took one approach...
View ArticleWhy You Should Not Depend On Child Support
Many custodial parents believe that they cannot live without child support from the absent parent. It is always to the child’s best interest to be supported by both parents. However, danger lies when...
View ArticleViews on Divorce
Jennifer Cullen recently wrote an article “Divorce Doesn’t Have the Same Bad Reputation It Used To.” She states that “there is definitely less of a stigma attached to having a marriage that didn’t make...
View ArticleOvercoming the Top Three Fears of Divorce
“Fears are nothing more than a state of mind” Napoleon Hill When going through a divorce one experiences a barrage of emotions. Within a 30-minute timeframe, you can go from anger, sadness, depression,...
View ArticleDating After Divorce: Are You Ready?
The thought of dating after divorce can seem both frightening and exhilarating at the same time. It has probably been years since you’ve been out on a date. You think that dating has changed and you...
View ArticleAsk Cindy: Should I be Friends with My Ex?
I am recently divorced and have remained friends with my ex-husband. Usually we get along fine and will go out to breakfast with him just as a friend and to talk. Sometimes he will come to my apartment...
View ArticleHow to Let Go of the Past
Are you afraid that if you let go of the past that you will lose control over your life? If you answered yes, you are not alone. You may be afraid that if you let go of the past, that your life will be...
View ArticleCoping with Unsupportive Family Members during Divorce
Divorce is believed to be the second most stressful event in a person’s life. The first being the death of a spouse. It can be even more difficult when your family members are taking your husband’s...
View ArticleWhy Didn’t He Love Me Enough?
During and after a divorce many women ask the question, “Why didn’t he love me enough?” This question is asked regardless if you left him or he left you. It is one of the “Why’s” that can continually...
View ArticleMoving Forward After Separation and Divorce
Moving forward after separation can seem like a daunting task – even if you are the one that initiated it! After years of growing apart, Tammy decided to divorce Alan. They never spoke and Alan did not...
View ArticleDid You Take the Most Important Thing When You Divorced?
There are multiple aspects to divorce, including what you leave behind and take with you moving forward. This applies to internal things even more than material things. Your emotional and mental state...
View ArticleBeing Happy without a Man in Your Life
There’s a big difference between being alone and being lonely. It’s absolutely possible to be lonely when you’re not alone, just like it’s possible not to be lonely when you’re alone. Being happy...
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